I was once told by a therapist that the state of my room often reflected the state of my mind. So if my room was messy, it’s because my mind was messy. She told me that if I noticed my room was messy, to reflect inward and see how my mind was doing. Of course, it didn’t always match up, but A LOT of the time it did!
When I noticed my messy mind and room I would always go on a cleaning spree and try and clean my whole house (quite the daunting task when you have a messy mind), and sometimes I did, however most times I didn’t finish the whole house and I ended up feeling unaccomplished and that I had failed.
I later found that choosing just one part of my room and focusing on cleaning that one area was the best option. I’d get part of my mess cleaned and I still got to feel accomplished. This little bit of self-care would help get me onto a brighter path and closer to feeling better!
So the next time you’re feeling anxious, depressed, or just a little bit down, take a look at the space around you. Maybe 10 minutes of cleaning off your bed, or packing away some clothes will help with the clutter in your mind. Or maybe it won’t work this time, but your parents/roommates will be happy at the very least.
Enjoy the rest of your Self-Care Sunday!